All you have to do is be honest about your username here and you'll never see her again. It's a gross feeling. Although, I also would question the fact that you're doing all the contacting I just do not text anyone that often or call people. Better navigate the business aspects of medicine and stay on top of the changing healthcare landscape. There are billions of other girls out there who I wouldn't have issues like this with. I chose to move on. Why am I still with him. Sexuality is the enemy of romance, and romance is amazing. Remember she will only try to convert you because she thinks it is in your best interest. What do you think is a reasonable expectation for how much time you will spend together, how often you will talk, etc.
Or maybe he's like me and would rather just collapse into bed with you when he gets home. Having said that, I believe strongly that it takes a special individual who can remain active in the church and have a non-traditional marriage. Well in my case and at this time, some of their words and advice are really hitting home and taking root because we are yet another casualty of the residency firing brigade. I think it was Spencer Kimball who counselled that before marriage you should keep your eyes wide open and then after marriage keep your eyes half shut. Keep things going and see what happens. The "loneliness" is not an issue for me. Have any of you wives found the same thing. Is your mind made up and you want justifying support. At that point we quit going and focused on her goals and family bonding. In retrospect, I believe I was being led to my current spouse.
You guys are looking into this wayyyyyyy too much. That's all she thought about for 18 months, plus the months leading up to it, and winding down. He states that if he is making such a tremendously better income, it would be selfish of me to put our children in daycare in the future so I can work. I thought about those deeply spiritual moments I had had in life and how special they were to me. Am I resentful - yes!!. I'm pretty disturbed by the level of dismissiveness seen in many of the comments here. Never ask vague questions and give her definite options instead. That deal with polygamy explained. He is always on call, too stressed, too tired etc etc. OP Have you seen the Brother Jake videos.
She is probably thinking she can convert you if she is with you long enough and is a good enough example. Do you want to be married in the temple. If she doesn't care that you aren't a member now, if your relationship goes on long enough, she is going to care eventually.